A New Decade Begins

Today is the start of a new decade. I look back into the past decade and realize that I was tiny 10 years ago. I wasn’t even in high school yet. Reflecting on major influences from the past 10 years in my life is difficult to do as things that may have been a big deal then seem so small and insignificant now. But I am going to try.

In 2000 I was in grd 5, that means I was 11.

In 2001 Harry Potter and the Sorcerers Stone came out as well as Moulin Rouge, The Lord of The Rings: The Fellowship of The Ring, Pearl Harbour, Oceans 11, and Shrek. It was a good year for movies. I think I started doing Ballet again in this year too. I was also in std 5, now known better as grd 7 in school. That means I was a senior in Primary School. Big Fish in a very small pool. I was also a prefect.

In 2002 I went to high school. Small fish in a big sea. For initiation I had to wear a stocking on my head, walk around in a cardboard box painted in spots, and carry a brick around. I was a cow and the brick my baby. It was a new school, with new friends, just what I wanted. I visited Russia and fell in love. I haven’t been back YET, but I will. I also payed a visit to Finland (went to a Finish high school), Turkey (bought a Turkish carpet – well my parents did for me), UK (I learnt that family can be disappointing and hurt your feelings). I missed a whole term of school – when I got back people thought I had immigrated. I could only wish I had. The movie Chicago was released as well as Spiderman and another Lord of The Rings, and another Harry Potter. I found out i have an allergy to horse hair. I coloured my hair for the first time – it was blonde, and I made it lighter blonde – massive change!

In 2003 I fell over backwards into the bath after sending an sms about they guy I liked to him by accident when it was meant for my friend. I changed friend groups. I went to my first Oppi Koppi and my first Splashy Fen. I had the best 2 friends. We were like the three musketeers (Pepermint Tart, Suurlemoen Tert, and Milk Tart). I took up modelling (not my idea, I wanted to do drama).

In 2004 I changed friend groups yet again, this time not by choice (all of my friends moved away – Ghana, USA, Durban, Cape Town). I had my heart broken. But I had a great friend to share in the heart break as she too was going through the same situation. I went to Mozambique and met the guy that would later (2 years down the line) introduce me to Matt. Sex and The City ended.

In 2005 I became Anastasya and my friend became Nazdia (she is still under that name on my phone). My friend and I decided to have flings to mend our broken hearts – 5 years later she is still dating hers. I watched many many re-runs of SATC. I cut a fringe.

In 2006 all my friends became perfects. I went to Amsterdam and Italy (to dance). I missed my matric dance for this. I missed a lot of ‘important’ school events for my dancing. I officially started teaching. We missed the New Years countdown – twice apparently (not sure how that works). New best friend Toffee. Had an awkward moment, had another friend be very jealous of our friendship, had him have a thing with my cousin. Finally kissed my long time crush – and have my friend ruin it all. Was uninvited to the matric Vacation I helped plan, was then taken to Sun City for a week – 5* Accommodation, all expenses paid, should have been a dream, sorry. I met him! He went away for a month, we Skyped all month long and he became my best friend. I matriculated.

In 2007 had an all nighter we will never forget. Went to University. Met many new friends – spent most of my time dancing instead of going through the typical 1st year stuff. Moved. He moved in. I realized I am in love. I went on holiday a lot and worried very little. It was a great year. My dog died – I got her when I was 3 years old. I still miss her. I got Grishko, my new dog (named after pointe shoes).

In 2008 I found out that many students drop out, or change direction – more than i thought. I landed up in hospital, Ouch! I dyed the bottom part of my hair purple. Car trouble really got to the whole family. We broke down (good and solid) 2 weekends in a row, once on the way to a holiday and the other time on the way back. Decided to move out. I didn’t. Got my pretty red Dell.

In 2009 I finished. I opened my own dance and Pilates studio, Studio of Motion. My birthday celebration was a week long. I sold my beetle, Daisy. SAD. And got a new car – Alfa Romeo (Roxy). Went to Ireland, the UK, and got stalked in Dubai International. He also got a new car – Land Rover Defender. A semi-good year in cars. I am so busy starting up my studio – and having my family help out that we didn’t even put up a Christmas tree and I din’t realize it was New Years eve until it was almost over. Witnessed a meteorite crash on earth – it was one of the most beautiful things I have ever seen. Got Swine Flu.

I think 2010 is going to be a great year, and a wonderful start to the new decade. Bring it on.

I Can’t Stand The Chaos And Clutter

So Yesterday I freaked out! Why? Well, I have been living in this room of chaos I call my bedroom and blaming it on the fact that it’s that time of year again – exam time. Well, enough is enough. Last night I repacked my closet, not only that, and I am giving away about 60% of my clothes too. And now my closet looks empty – well almost empty. I am even getting rid of some shoes. Ouch, it hurts to say those words out loud. I love my shoes and never thought that I would get rid of them, but it was time.

Today, I also started going through old boxes (boxes that haven’t been unpacked since my last move). Today I am parting with many of my childhood toys. Can anyone believe that I still have them? One thing I am keeping is most of my Barbie collection. When I was a little girl I promised myself that I would keep my Barbies for my daughter one day – I now realise how ridiculous that promise was but I figure, I got this far so why throw them away now.

I also found my ‘memory boxes’ from primary school and high school. I barely even looked through them. I threw them away! I started going through them and realised that I have no idea what the little things that i had put in them remind me of anymore. My high school box was mainly filled with letters and photographs. I took the photographs and foreign currency out and threw the rest away without even looking at the letters again.

A part of me says I’m crazy, and a part of me just doesn’t care about that part of my life anymore. The fact that I can let go of all those memories (good and bad) amazes me. I have never been able to do so in the past. I have always held onto every memory as if remembering it will help me stay in touch with something that is now gone. Well, I realised today that I am starting to let go of those memories without realising it. I am also ashamed to say that I forgot a promise one of my best friends and I made when we were in primary school. I think it had something to do with 21, but can’t really remember what that was. I am almost dead sure that I remembered two years ago.

I wonder, does everyone start to forget things at a certain point or does one consciously/subconsciously have to make a decision to do this? If so, why is this happening now in my life?

Changes

Change – Defined in Wikipedia as the process of becoming different. It’s also one of those words that starts to sound really weird if you say it over and over and over again. Change, Change, Change, Change, Change, Change, Change.

So there have been a lot of changes lately in my life. Some of which I can mention at the moment and some which I can’t.Many people are afraid of change, afraid of the unknown. I agree it can be scray.

At the studio we lost a teacher and gained another. It’s horrible to lose a colleague who is so close. The worst part is that she was not just a colleague but a friend too. People move on in life and I find that change is a good thing. It should be embraced. I am very happy for her and her new job but I  will miss her.

Another change…my 20 Something Bloggers page looks different. I changed my appearance. Not a big change, but a change non-the-less.

Not all changes in life are big rite? But most changes in life are good. They open up many doors and opportunities that might not have been there before. What I’m going on about now doesn’t have anything to do with my appearance change on 20sb, but maybe soon I can reveal what I’m truly babbling about. For now though, I will continue to think of change as a good thing – I am open to change.

change

Friends, Friends, Friends

We all have them! Sometimes they drive us crazy and sometimes they are all we want and need at that time.

I have been watching a lot of Sex and The City lately and it makes me miss my girlfriends sooo much. It makes me miss high school sleepovers and gossiping. It makes me think of cocktails and brunch.

What’s even better than the friends you have close by are the friends that you lose contact with and then come back into contact with. I have a friend from primary school that I recently came back into contact with via Facebook. She was and (i think) still is by far the best friend I have ever had. We started chatting again and it feels like we were never separated. We grew up in completely different worlds (her is England and me in Sunny SA) and yet she still seems exactly the same.

It’s strange how the universe works, how some people in life just click and others, well I won’t mention those.

sex-and-the-city-cocktails

I’m Back

Ok, so for a while now I have been out of action. There are reasons for this. To summarise what I have been up to would not be fair as I have honestly been having a blast. But (yes I did just start that sentence with but) I will have to summarise it all otherwise I will be sitting here forever.

I spent Valentines day in Dullstroom (horse riding and fishing), went to a wedding, spent some time in the wild with no cellphone signal, got circled by Lions, went to a dance competition, attended a 5 year old birthday party, did a presentation about professional dancing and teaching, attended three 21st (a 50′s party, an 80′s party, and a normal party). Missed the cake cutting at two of those 21st. The cake I did have made up for the other two though.Matt and i also got new piercings.

Here are a few photo’s from all of these various events and happenings.

Claudia and Dave's Wedding, Mara's 5th birthday party, Ingwelala

Claudia and Dave's Wedding, Mara's 5th birthday party, Ingwelala

Ingwelala, Matt making Breakfast, Ryan's 80's party

Ingwelala, Matt making Breakfast, Ryan's 80's party

Debbie's 21st

Debbie's 21st

Valentines day in Dullstroom

Valentines day in Dullstroom

20 Something Bloggers – My New Favorite Thing

So I have been doing some snooping, some reading of new blogs. And along the way I came across 20 Something Bloggers, where I landed up finding even more lovely blogs to read and instantly made new friends. I love it.

I think it is the perfect thing for all 20 Something Bloggers to join, so if you haven’t yet…I suggest you do. Then add me!

20sb – My Page

My Page

My Page

New Year On It’s Way

WOW! There’s a new year coming already.

Am I the only one that feels this year has simply flown by? There are so many things that I promised myself I would do and so many that I didn’t even get close to. So I have really been thinking about my new years resolutions for 2009. I’m really trying to make them reasonable and possible to keep. But before I get to my resolutions for next year I’d like to look back at the good in this year.

I’m so happy to say that my mom (after having breast cancer) is clean for her 3rd year now.

My cat Sushi is still alive. I love him very much and to be honest, he’s getting very old. I don’t want him to die.

sushi

Matt and I have been dating for 2 years now.

I had a great birthday this year (I was very spoilt) and spent it with great people. Normally I hate my birthdays.

birthday

birthday picnic

I have had some wonderful and some not so wonderful holidays, but holidays none the less.

Matt Fishing in Waterval Boven

Matt Fishing in Waterval Boven

Matt and I at Old Joe's Statue

Matt and I at Old Joe's Statue

Matt and my cousin Syndi putting up the tent in the Kryger Park

Matt and my cousin Syndi putting up the tent in the Kruger Park

Our lovely neighbour

Our lovely neighbour

Our neighbours caravan, ha ha ha

Our neighbours caravan, ha ha ha

Matt Feeding the Buck

Matt Feeding the Buck

Some water fun at The Vaal Dam

Some water fun at The Vaal Dam

Matt at The Vaal Dam

Matt at The Vaal Dam

Matt and I

Matt and I

Lovely Ngwenya

Lovely Ngwenya

Breakfast at Steers

Breakfast at Steers

Expensive dinner with lovely company

Expensive dinner with lovely company

Had a great End Year Show.

Passed my second year of University.

After uploading all of those holiday pictures I want to go on holiday now and can’t remember what else was good this year, but honestly it was a good year, with great people and lots of fun. Lets hope next year will be even better?!