Voting for who?

Yes it’s finally here. That is voting day in South Africa. Are you voting? I hope so.

I have come to realise that voting and who you are voting for seems to still be a touchy subject for some. I don’t know why, and if asked most people would probably not know either.

I realised this yesterday when I had brunch with my lovely friends Kat and Ryan. Obviously this topic arose and strangely enough we all joked about who we were voting for but none of us actually asked who the others are really voting for. It came out at the end with the usual “I am voting for xxx” and the reply “me too”, but there was no open questions about who will be voting for who.

Why is this? Why was it a rather touchy subject? I don’t know. Maybe it goes back to the fear of people not wanting to know from the days of repression and fear. Maybe it is the way that we are brought up – it is secret.

Who knows? What I do know though is that everyone should vote. I know of people who aren’t voting as they couldn’t care less, or just don’t do politics but honestly I’m not big into politics either and I will be voting today. So, you can too.

I would love to hear opinions on this and why you are or are not voting.

Changes

Change – Defined in Wikipedia as the process of becoming different. It’s also one of those words that starts to sound really weird if you say it over and over and over again. Change, Change, Change, Change, Change, Change, Change.

So there have been a lot of changes lately in my life. Some of which I can mention at the moment and some which I can’t.Many people are afraid of change, afraid of the unknown. I agree it can be scray.

At the studio we lost a teacher and gained another. It’s horrible to lose a colleague who is so close. The worst part is that she was not just a colleague but a friend too. People move on in life and I find that change is a good thing. It should be embraced. I am very happy for her and her new job but I  will miss her.

Another change…my 20 Something Bloggers page looks different. I changed my appearance. Not a big change, but a change non-the-less.

Not all changes in life are big rite? But most changes in life are good. They open up many doors and opportunities that might not have been there before. What I’m going on about now doesn’t have anything to do with my appearance change on 20sb, but maybe soon I can reveal what I’m truly babbling about. For now though, I will continue to think of change as a good thing – I am open to change.

change

Friends, Friends, Friends

We all have them! Sometimes they drive us crazy and sometimes they are all we want and need at that time.

I have been watching a lot of Sex and The City lately and it makes me miss my girlfriends sooo much. It makes me miss high school sleepovers and gossiping. It makes me think of cocktails and brunch.

What’s even better than the friends you have close by are the friends that you lose contact with and then come back into contact with. I have a friend from primary school that I recently came back into contact with via Facebook. She was and (i think) still is by far the best friend I have ever had. We started chatting again and it feels like we were never separated. We grew up in completely different worlds (her is England and me in Sunny SA) and yet she still seems exactly the same.

It’s strange how the universe works, how some people in life just click and others, well I won’t mention those.

sex-and-the-city-cocktails

Things I Love At This Moment.

We all know that you go through stages in your life when you love various things. Here are a few of the things I am loving at this moment. Some of these things are long-term-loves rather than just at the moment loves but they belong on this list too.

1. My Boyfriend (long-term-love) who constantly comes to check up on me when I am sick.

Matt Geri

By the way i have food poisoning from KFC. This is not fun people, especially as I don’t have time for this food poisoning. I have deadlines to reach and now they must be reached from my sick bed.

2. My oh-so-cute hat and fingerless/mitten gloves.

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3. Weekends away in Dullstroom.

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4. My COMPLETE series of Sex and The City box set (long-term-love, Hat). I have longed for this box set for three years and after waiting and hinting at birthdays and christmas’ and not receiving I decided to treat myself to it. I now can’t treat myself to anything for the next few months but that is besides the point.

Sex and The City

sex and the city

5. Buying my friends gifts. I love buying birthday presents and watching people open them. I think I love it even more than receiving gifts.

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6. Emily over at Cupcakes and Cashmere. I just love her blog.

7. Incense and Candles while sitting in bed watching Sex and The City.

Incense and Candles

8. A good cup of coffee.

good coffee

coffee

9. My dog, Grishko.

grishko

Birthdays, Birthdays and More Birthdays

These last few months have been rather hectic BIRTHDAY wise. For some strange reason I know a lot of people that have their birthdays around this time of year. It gets rather expensive to buy everyone gifts but it’s one thing in life that I can’t help and love doing. Gift Buying.

I love to see the expression on people’s faces when they open the gifts. I always force them to open it while i’m around. I don’t like it when people keep all their gifts aside and open them “later” or all at once. How boring! Open it now! I think I get more excited than they do.

I love buying cards aswell. You get some really crazy cards and some beautiful cards. I can’t really put any photo’s of the cards up yet as my friends that have not received their gifts will then see their cards (if they read this) – where is the fun in that? I will put some up later though.

Winter Is Here

Ok, so it’s suddenly winter. How do I know this? Well there are a few tell-tale signs. It’s suddenly chilly (not just in the mornings, but rather throughout the day). The South African sun is a lot brighter (Have you South Africans ever realised that you need sunglasses a lot more in winter than in summer? It’s a different type of sunshine). My skin is suddenly dry – I hate this about winter in the high-veld (when this happens I know it’s really winter). My dog just wants to cuddle under the blankets, she also doesn’t get hot halfway through the night and climb out instead she cuddles tight up against me. I find myself attracted to scarfs and gloves in the shops.

So winter came early this year – in my opinion. I also think that winter is going to be very cold this year. I love winter (other than the dry skin part) and after a long and hot summer I can’t wait for winter to return. I love the winter clothes and accessories. I love layering. I love fingerless gloves, mittens and a combination of the two. I love gumboots and hats.

Winter is a great time of year. I heard somewhere that there is no horrible weather just a different kind of lovely weather. Winter is just another kind of lovely weather to me.

Please tell me, what you love about winter? If you don’t like winter tell me what you prefer to winter.

I’m Back

Ok, so for a while now I have been out of action. There are reasons for this. To summarise what I have been up to would not be fair as I have honestly been having a blast. But (yes I did just start that sentence with but) I will have to summarise it all otherwise I will be sitting here forever.

I spent Valentines day in Dullstroom (horse riding and fishing), went to a wedding, spent some time in the wild with no cellphone signal, got circled by Lions, went to a dance competition, attended a 5 year old birthday party, did a presentation about professional dancing and teaching, attended three 21st (a 50′s party, an 80′s party, and a normal party). Missed the cake cutting at two of those 21st. The cake I did have made up for the other two though.Matt and i also got new piercings.

Here are a few photo’s from all of these various events and happenings.

Claudia and Dave's Wedding, Mara's 5th birthday party, Ingwelala

Claudia and Dave's Wedding, Mara's 5th birthday party, Ingwelala

Ingwelala, Matt making Breakfast, Ryan's 80's party

Ingwelala, Matt making Breakfast, Ryan's 80's party

Debbie's 21st

Debbie's 21st

Valentines day in Dullstroom

Valentines day in Dullstroom